Tuesday, September 22, 2009

What is love?

I still couldn't figure out the word 'love' after 23 years of my life.

I might be having tons of loves from my family and friends, but it is definitely not from the lover.

For those who knew me well, I am an emotional and sentimental person who looking for long lasting relationship, but the luck is not always by my side.

In fact a few friends of mine are having the intention to become a lesbian after several broken relationships, and because of that, I realized that love can be such a powerful weapon that turn a normal person into an abnormal one.

Sometimes, you thought things might be worked out fine between you and him after several outings, but unexpected endings tend to be happened. The sparks between you and him will just eventually disappeared due to some unknown reasons.

Physical appearance plays an importance role in attracting opposite gender, true? How about inner beauty?

Last time, I thought inner beauty is the first criteria that many guys are looking for, but many cases have proved me wrong.

Girls with awesome makeup, well dresses, bad attitudes and lack of tidiness, will always surrounded by a sea of admirers. Whereas girl with average looking and good attitudes, will always end up being alone. I guess i am falling into the second category.

The words 'divorce' and 'breakup' have been used frequently nowadays compared to the olden days. Maybe the perception has changed from one generation to another generation, i still remember that our parents are deeply in love with each other no matter how poor, ugly and sick they are, and this is the exact feeling and relationship that i am looking for.

Well, this is just my opinion, guys might not be agreed with it :)

Maybe i shall start putting makeup and learn how to flirt with guys :p

9 comments:

rainbow angeles said...

sinling, u dun hv to do that... i'm sure whoever your mr. right is, he wouldn't appreciate someone who's not herself, someone who's fake... just be yourself... you are still young.. and most importantly, who says that you can be happy only if you are attached? ;-)

day-dreamer said...

I agree with angeles. What for change ourselves just to please guys who only look for outer beauty? We should just be ourselves!! You go girl~~ *hugs*

ah nel said...

meimei...y so kanceong bout relationship as da best owes come last..
ah kor wil run away those outer beauty gals as none of dem r good eh... ;)

Anonymous said...

The right guy will love you for who you are. The wrong one will want you to change you. Stay true to yourself and sooner or later if it is in your destiny some lucky guy will come along

Kopi Soh

ah nel said...

mei mei mana pigi liao?

zewt said...

based on the theory of hallo effect, first impression matters most. one has approximately 7 seconds to make an impression, a lasting one, before every possiblility of connection disappears...

it is only with the first physical attraction that will lead to the guy discovering inner beauty. that's how humans function, unfortumately...

zewt said...

based on the theory of hallo effect, first impression matters most. one has approximately 7 seconds to make an impression, a lasting one, before every possiblility of connection disappears...

it is only with the first physical attraction that will lead to the guy discovering inner beauty. that's how humans function, unfortumately...

ah nel said...

im goin kl nex wk...sory cant stop by seremban but wil on the nex trip... ;)

Uncle Lee said...

Hi Ling ling, not to worry, one day, some day when you least expect it, someone will come and sweep you off your feet.
Believe you me, it will come.
Right now maybe the stars not in right alignment....but this Tiger year good for romances.
You stay young, stay beautiful and keep a song in your heart, Lee.